All Episodes

Chapter № 007 4:22

Survival Responses

That meltdown, that shutdown, that overly agreeable "yes ma'am" your child gives you before they've even heard the question: none of it is defiance. It's biology. Every child …

Chapter № 006 3:36

Trauma Resources

Survival responses are what your child's body does in a single moment. Trauma responses are what that same body starts doing all the time. Hypervigilance at the dinner …

Chapter № 005 2:58

Private Adoption

Private adoption often comes with less built-in support than adopting through foster care. That doesn't mean you're on your own. It means you need a plan before you …

Chapter № 004 2:06

Adoption Subsidies

Nobody hands you a manual for the money side of adoption, and that silence costs families more than they realize. There's real financial support available to adoptive families. …

Chapter № 003 3:04

Building Regulation

Your child's behavior isn't the problem. It's the smoke, not the fire. Underneath every meltdown, shutdown, or "why is he doing this AGAIN" moment is a nervous system …